I QUIT MY OLD WAY OF SEWING
I QUIT! That’s it for me. I’m done with “just sewing” because it has been a big waste of my time. I know what you’re thinking. What in the world is going on? Why all the hype about updating the blog and relaunching—getting people all excited—just to quit? Allow me a few minutes of your time to explain, because I truly believe I’m not in this alone.
THE PROBLEM
Let me ask you a few questions. What have you been sewing lately? Are you sewing everything, but wearing nothing? When you look at your DIY wardrobe, would you say you’re wearing at least 80% of what you’ve made? If you’re wearing most of your creations, then this post probably doesn’t apply to you. I’m asking these questions because I have a problem. Keep reading!
BUYING WHAT THEY BUY?
When I returned to sewing, in 2015, I went crazy. The online sewing community was new to me, and I wanted a piece of what everyone else was doing. Whenever patterns were on sale, I was at the store filling my cart. Likewise, when I learned of the term, “fabric stash,” oh honey, I had to have one. My face became well known at our local Joann’s, and visits to the fabric dealers in the Los Angeles Fashion District were like trips to Disneyland. Purchasing and storing fabric & patterns became an exciting adventure. I mean, if everyone else was doing it, then it must have been the “thing” right? That was my first mistake.
SEWING EVERYTHING BUT WEARING NOTHING?
Next, I started “just sewing” everything. The majority of my projects were what I call, “Event Sewing”. That means I basically made outfits to wear out to places with my husband. All other projects consisted of anything I felt like making at the moment, or whatever I forced myself to make for the purpose of having something to post on the blog. I was “just” sewing. At the time, I thought it was perfectly fine because, after all, I was making beautiful garments, and so was everyone else. You may ask, “How is this a problem?” The problem is that I don’t have anything to wear right now.
I have too many patterns, too much fabric, and absolutely nothing to wear. Yeah, that FOMO (fear-of-missing-out) syndrome caught me off guard. I’ve sewn more clothes than I can remember, and I pretty much have very little to show for it. Most of what I’ve sewn isn’t even in my closet anymore. Since my husband is no longer here, I’m not attending many events (yet). I have lots of pretty dresses, very few separates and one pair of wearable pants (skinny jeans). GASP! I know you’re probably mortified by this revelation. What’s even more surprising is the fact that I REFUSE to go shopping for clothes. I will not buy ready-to-wear.
Am I the only one with this issue? If you’re in the same position or similar, please leave me a comment below because I’m very curious to know if there are others out there like me. I don’t regret returning to sewing. However, I now realize that I started off all wrong, and I have a solution that I believe will help.
DISCLAIMER
Before I proceed any further, let me make one thing clear. I’m totally aware that there are people in the world who literally have nothing to wear. They’re living on the streets with no food, shelter and only the clothing on their backs. It’s not my intention to be insensitive to this issue we face in America. My husband and I have always been donors to the homeless, both financially and with our time. I will definitely continue serving in his absence. It is my responsibility, as a Christian, to give back according to how God has blessed me. Many of the clothes I’ve made have been donated to charity events to raise money for those in need, and that will continue. We’re all blessed to be a blessing! Now back to the topic of this post.
THE SOLUTION
What I’ve discovered is that “just sewing” has left me unprepared and lacking in my wardrobe. If you can relate and want to make a change, then we must engage a new model. I’m calling it “Sewing with a Plan.” This is nothing new, but something I’ve never done! You know the saying:
“If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got.”― Henry Ford
In order for us to move forward from “just sewing” to “Sewing with a Plan”, we must shift our approach. “Sewing with a Plan” is a journey—a new Series I’m starting, and you’re invited you to join me.
THE PLAN
Beginning next week, we’ll work through a 4-Step, strategic plan to help us become more efficient and purposeful in our sewing. Don’t worry—we’re still gonna be able to do a little “just because” sewing once in a while. If we get the urge to create something outside of our personal plans, we won’t deprive ourselves. It’s just that we’ll approach it differently now.
WHAT TO EXPECT
By the end of the Series, we should:
1. Have clarity about our sewing direction;
2. Begin sewing items that fit our lifestyles; and
3. Feel a sense of accomplishment in getting the maximum wear from our DIY wardrobe.
I don’t know about you, but I’m pretty excited about this new Series. I can’t wait to find out where it leads us. The journey begins next week. Don’t miss out! If you have sewing friends who you think could benefit from the Series, be sure to share this post with them. “Sewing with a Plan!” That’s what we need! Let’s have some fun with this!
OTHER BLOG POSTS IN THIS SERIES
- STEP 1 – HOW TO DECLUTTER YOUR WARDROBE
- STEP 2 – HOW TO PLAN A FUNCTIONAL WARDROBE
- STEP 3 – HOW TO DECLUTTER YOUR SEWING PATTERNS
- STEP 4 – HOW TO ORGANIZE YOUR FABRIC
- STEP 5 – HOW TO PLAN A SEWING PROJECT
Thanks for stopping by!
Remember: When you live in your DESIGN, it is from there that God SHINES!
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This couldn’t be more relevant to me right now. In the process of redoing my craft / sewing room. I’ve sewed for years, but like you it was for events or made something that didn’t fit right. I need to stop procrastinating and finish my project. thank you for the encouragement. God Bless.
Jeannette, you are so very welcome. Have fun completing your project. After I completed purging and organizing my space, so many amazing things happened.God bless you too, sister.
I came back to reread the series and plan a strategy. We moved into a new home with a bigger closet. I have filled it with clothes I’ve made and don’t wear and clothes I don’t wear but haven’t gotten rid of. It’s time to organize my closet and my sewing room. Thank you for the tips. Carmen
Ooohhh, Carmen! Congratulations on your new home. How exciting that you get to organize your new closet. Have fun, fun, FUN!
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I find that I’m constantly returning to your site. First of all I need to see your fashions, and then I get realistic ideas.
Your views on decluttering as well a my plan I’ve established after reading “Decluttering your way to success” reinforced my identified need to obtain order in all aspects. The first thing I realized was that I missed my bedroom ( now used as a sewing room). The next was, I had to much stuff and that bag was not getting any lighter. So I’m decluttering and photographing my way to serenity. Moving the sewing to a spare bedroom which is smaller than the master. It isn’t that I don’t have enough space , I habe toooo much stuff.
Mary, I totally get what you’re saying. It’s so easy to allow things to get out of control. I hope you’re enjoying your decluttering process.
Wow! I missed this blog post the first time around. This is so timely for me now as I work on my functional capsule wardrobe. No sense in making things that I am not going to wear.
Hey Monique! Yes, I agree. I’d rather spend my time creating pieces that I’ll keep and wear over and over again.
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I love this! I am new to sewing, and maybe it’s my practical nature, but I don’t like to sew just to sew. Don’t get me wrong, I had to sew several box pouches with no raw seams inside until I finally got it right. Then I made just enough to give to the people I had in mind when I started the project. I love cloth napkins (saves on waste, etc), and they help me practice mitered corners and straight lines of stitching, so I sew those as well when I have some extra fabric. The only garments I’ve made have been a few pairs of pajama shorts which I needed and they were fun to get my toes wet. It was actually the pajama shorts that made me realize I want to tackle garment sewing, not quilting (as I thought I might). I have NO clue where to start, so I’m excited to go explore your series. Thank you so much!
Hi Raine. I wish you so much success as you venture into garment sewing. Enjoy the process! You’re off to a great start with your intentional sewing mindset. YES!
Oh my goodness. I just subscribed to your blog and I realize I’m year late (to be honest 40 years late) to begin a purposeful journey in sewing. I can so relate to your post….I have more fabric, more patterns, more gadgets and wasted many years thinking I was sewing; but have neglected the fact that I am (and have been) in the same position (I have nothing to wear). Thanks to That Sewing Blab I have found you and you’ve hit the nail on the head. Thank you Sister for sharing your insights and I look forward to my journey with you through this series of blog posts. May God Bless you abundantly.
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Thank you! I needed this haha for I too was sewing without direction. I look forward to learning useful skills
Yes I definitely know what you’re talking about and this is the perfect time for me. Currently we’re going through some remodeling and I’m gonna have a dedicated room aka sewing studio.??? So I have to declutter and get rid of a lot fabric (again) and patterns so I’m so happy I found your YouTube and blog. Thank you
Anita this blog spoke directly to me today. Due to what I call sewing ADHD I have deleted Instagram, and Facebook. I have decided to only be influenced by my actual needs. Not every new pattern or fabric that I sew online. Due to my changes in the last year, I have lost some sewing friends, but that is okay because I need to clear my mind and my closet.
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Hi Anita! I am guilty has charged! I quit sewing too for all the reasons you mentioned! Every time I turn around no matter what I’ve sewn in the past, I never have anything to wear! just recently I took a break and had to ask myself “what was the number one reason as to why you took up sewing?” My answer was to build a better wardrobe. I got caught up in making the latest patterns and joining the “bandwagons” and lost sight of what my true purpose was suppose to be. Looking forward to the SWAP journey.
Glad to have you Tonya! It’s more common than I imagined.
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Hi Anita! I am a beginner sewer and I just finished the clutch purse from your tutorial and I am so proud of the way that it came out. It was so easy and fun to follow, thank you for the great videos and inspiration.
Awesome, Charlotte! Congratulations on completing your first clutch. You’re very welcome. I’m so glad you enjoy the videos.
This is so appropriate for me. I retired almost two years ago and I still have clothes in my closets that I’ll never wear again. My fashion style has gone straight to athleisure with a twist. I can’t tell you when I last got “dolled” up. Even church is casual. Looking forward to this series. 4 closets to tackle.
OMGosh, Sandi! I almost passed out when you said, “4 closets to tackle”. I can’t imagine! OMGosh! You can do it, Sandi. Just take your time and tackle one at a time.
Are you not going to do your new series on YouTube? I love watching it and seem to connect better than reading an email and trying to understand.
Hi Pamela! The Series is actually happening here on the blog.
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This is exciting, can’t wait to follow the #swapwithanita journey.
Yaaay, Carol! Thanks for joining me!
Hi Ms Anita.I alway love looking at your video’s.And first of all,you are very inspirational anita. And another thing I was so happy to read a lot of your stuff because I know that was me doing every time I watch somebody video I’ll going out here while buying patterns and all the patterns I got I haven’t really made nothing or used. So I hope this could be a new start for me where I can do this right this time because I love to sew I have a lot of hobbies. I have put down my sew-in for a minute . I go back and forth a little bit. I start picking up my knit & crochet. but I love to sew and I would love to get back into it. but like you said I would love to do it a purpose of sewing things what I like to wear. Thank you so much Ms Anita.
Hi Nina! Sounds like this is the perfect opportunity for you to restart. I’m happy to have you join me on this journey and I really appreciate your support of my videos and blog.
If this isn’t my story…from the pattern buying to the fabric stashing I feel as though you were in my head Ms. Anita. I was just telling a friend I needed to take a step back and regroup. Thank you for this post as it couldn’t have been more timely. I’m looking forward to the series because Lord knows I need it. Have a blessed day!
OMGoodness, Florence! That’s exactly what we’re about to do, “take a step back and regroup”. I’m so excited about this and overjoyed to have so many joining me on the journey. Thank you so much for being a part of this. I’ll see you here tomorrow.
Let me first off thank you for your inspiration. I made my first skirt using your sew along! I’ve been sewing for a year and there is NOTHING of mine that i’ve made and wear consistently. I have entirely too many patterns (most of which are probably beyond my skill level) and too much fabric. Every time there’s a pattern sale I feel as I HAVE to get some. I’m constantly on the hunt and researching the best sewing and embroidery machines and sergers but will not buy clothes lol! I forced myself to buy some jeans and a top because what happens is I always talk myself out of buying clothing by saying “oh i can make this myself”, not realizing that i’ve never even sewn a button before. So unfortunately (and hilariously) I can related to this as well. An intervention needs to happen. Stat!
Iree! Hahaha!!! The intervention begins tomorrow. We’re about to flip the script on all this madness. Let’s do this!
Hi Anita
I am truly sorry about your loss. I have always been your fan and love your sewing tutorials. I didn’t see any tutorials with clothes that weren‘t suitable for every day use. Thank you very much for all the effort and great ideas.
Tuti
Hi Tuti! Oh, thank you so much! I think the only items I have left from those tutorials are two of the caftans. That’s it!
First of all, you are very inspirational Anita! Your husband’s illness and passing must have been very difficult and yet you have come through this with such grace and courage. I completely identify with your new focus on intentional sewing as I am going through a similar inflexion point, there was a period when I sewed 30+ garments in a year as an advanced beginner but many of them weren’t satisfactory in terms of quality (due to inexperience) and weren’t items that I would take pleasure in wearing nor long-lasting (as a beginner you tend to buy cheap fabrics). Took the plunge recently to donate anything I would not wear regularly, even including some of my own handmade stuff from that phase, and now start to build back from scratch to plan a capsule wardrobe with 40% fewer items than before the big purge. Look forward to joining you on this journey!
OMGosh, Hwei-Yi! You just told my whole story in that one paragraph. You totally get me right now. I’m so glad to have you join me on this journey. I’m so excited!
I’m with you Anita! Too often, you just go into your room and make for the sake of making, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing until you realize that what your just made might not work with anything else. So then you make more, LOL! It’s been really good for me the past year or so to really start thinking about how any given garment would actually fit into my life. Life with managing a house with 4 kids doesn’t necessarily translate to me wearing all the girly things all the time, but I’m slowly learning how I can incorporate some of those ideas without sacrificing the practicality that I need.
“Making for the sake of making!” OMGosh, Elizabeth! That was an all too familiar occurrence for me too. It’s great that you’ve already started on this journey. So glad to have you join me.
Anita!
This is an AWESOME article! I can relate so well to this issue of having a bunch of clothes and no where to really wear them! Since i haven’t blogged in a while, i have been struggling on what i should “post” first when i do finally come back with. My new reality is a lot more casual and i can honestly say that i have VERY little casual looks. I struggle just to get out of the house and take my kids to a Lacrosse or basketball game! The struggle is such a reality that i resort to athleisure….not my ideal idea of what i want to wear all of the time. With that said, my stuggle is getting motivated to sew for my real life and not just a blog post. I am jumping in on your challenge to get me going again (fingers crossed). Glad to see you back at it!!! Ruqayyah
Ruqayyah!!! OMGosh, you get where I’m coming from. I look forward to your comeback and so glad to have you join me on this journey. I’m so excited to shift my focus to a well rounded, functional wardrobe. It’s gonna be a lot of work, but I’m so ready.
OMGosh, Anita!!! I love the new site and especially this post! You are absolutely right…
INTENTIONAL SEWING
This is where I need to be.
And can I tell you how tickled I was when I was looking around your new site (so proud of you for tackling it yourself) and seeing my very first comment to you on your “Testimonials” page. You’ve held my hand through the computer screen for the first ever pieces of clothing I ever made myself. I love you my sew sister!
You are more of an inspiration to me than you will ever know.
Aaahhh! Tracy!!! How exciting to have you join me on this journey. Oh gosh, your words are music to my ears and a huge encouragement.Hearing things like this is what motivates me to continue sharing. Thank you so much for stopping by and I”m so glad you like the new look of my site. See you here next week.
When I read your blog today, the first thing I thought was “It’s about time somebody got real!!!!!!!!”. I am so ready for someone who is going to talk about REAL lifestyles!!! Who wears twirly dresses around the house all day? Maybe in an old “I love Lucy” life, lol. My REAL has been coping with major depression, the meds, the weight gain (come on, I know you’re out there, too). I’ve been collecting patterns and fabric for a co-ordinating wardrobe, but, oh my, my figure has changed and I can’t quite get started cutting out the garments. I’m really looking forward to your blog and best wishes, I admire your courage!!!
Hi Phoebe! Thanks for joining the conversation. There are actually many of our sewing peers out there creating functional wardrobes and rocking their pieces daily, I just haven’t been one of them. I certainly don’t want to put anyone down for what they do—I just need some help for myself. I’m so happy to have you join me on this journey.
Yes, our sister, Tabitha Sewer just ran a campaign during Mental Health Awareness week and quite a few of us supported her and shared our stories. Did you see it? We’re out here sister, and we support you.
We’re gonna make this shift together and begin sewing with a plan. See you here next week.
I feel this on so many levels. I don’t get to see as much as I’d like but one reason is mainly because hubby and I are more now than ever in a lot of casual wear bc we’re working most of the time or chilling. I’ll sew something and have no where to wear it. I’m looking forward to this. Thank you.
I hear you Towanna! Glad to have you join me. We’re gonna take the steps together. See you here next week.
Hi Anita,
Having a plan for one’s sewing is great and I thing persons who enjoy sewing, are very fortunate in life. Personally, I have been sewing almost all my life but my items I made were most of the time unwearable. It wasn’t until I was an exchange student in the USA and took a sewing course in High School, it began to get better. Just being taught how to put a zipper in in a pair of pants made a great change for my sewing abiblity.
Now I’m part retired and have time for sewing and would like to find my persoanl style and to make the kind of clothes I am in need of for my lifestyle. I also wish to cut out from material bad for our environment and use organic material as far as possible. I am looking forward to following your new sewing plans.
My best regards
Lena Grip
Jönköping
Sweden
Oh Lena, I’m so glad to have you join me all the way from Sweden. I think you’ll be very happy to read next week’s post. You’ve mentioned several points that will be addressed in the Series. Thank you so much for being part of the conversation.
Anita, I am so ready to start this journey with you to sew consciously . I have a closet full of clothing I can either no longer fit or that don’t fit my current retiree lifestyle. I am READY to S.W.A.P!
Yeeesss, Nancy! I’m so excited to have you join me. We’re about to do this thing right. Change is coming! Thanks for being part of this discussion and I’ll see you here next week.
I completely agree with you Anita! I would rather have fewer clothes in my closet that get a ton of wear than have a lot of clothes in my closet just sitting there. My closets are stocked with items that get little wear, so seeing your post is a welcomed transition. Like you I’m guilty of buying patterns just to have them for a particular style or fabric just because it looks pretty. Thank you and I’m looking forward to seeing your future posts….I’m with you!
We’re gonna fix it Natalie! We’re gonna do the work and shift this mindset we’ve been engaging. Thank you so much for being part of the conversation and joining the Series. See you here next week.
Once you explained your reason for “quiting” I found myself nodding my head YES. I’m with ya!!
Awesome! Glad to have you with me, Vivian! See you here next week.
Thank you for being honest and trustful about this. I’m with you 100% and excited to get motivated to get back to sewing with a purpose and direction. God bless you.
Yaaay! Glad to have you join me, Maria! We’re gonna do this thing right. See you here next week.
I am very excited Ms. Anita, you see I am one of those people that just buys patterns like no tomorrow because of the style. Then when realialty finally hits me I am lIke really !! How can I fit it in my everyday wear?
Yeah, Barbara, this is right on time for you too. Glad to have you join me. Thanks for being part of the conversation.
Really looking forward to this, I have some fabrics, a few patterns and no clue what to do next.
I’m a usa size 2 which is a size 6 in the uk, shop clothing usually starts at 8 or even 10, at 55 years old childrens clothes are just silly.
Can’t wait to get started x
Hey Susie! Okay, you had me dying with laughter abut the children’s clothes at 55. Hahaha!!! So glad to catch you at the beginning of your journey. Thanks for joining me. See you here next week.
Wow, I’m super excited. I’ve been skinny all my life and now that I’m gaining weight (menopause argh!!!!) I need new stuff to wear and still look presentable!!!! Thanks for this series. God bless you my dear.
Yaaay! Glad to have you join me Daphne!
Looking forward to joining you and celebrating your come back.
Yes! Thanks Imani!
Anita, you had me screaming “NOOOO!!! she can’t quit sewing” I love your tutorials. I’m still a beginner, and have made 3 dresses, 3 skirts, 1 blouse and 1 shirt dress. When I picked my patterns and fabric I was already thinking what I had in my closet that I could mix n match it with. I can’t wait to start this journey with you.
Yes, Yolanda! You’re the wise one. You’re ahead of the game and I’m on my way to having a functional wardrobe too. See you here next week.
I look forward to the new direction.
Thanks for joining me Ashely!
Wow… I have only been sewing a year and so far I have made 5 garments – none of which I have ever chosen to wear. This sounds ideal for me and I am an improving beginner so I hope I can keep up.
Hi Claire! Sounds like this is just what you need! Thanks for joining me. See you here next week.
What a awesome idea I can’t wait to get started. I’m always at church events so my closet is full but nothing I can wear to just have a casual lunch with the ladies. I look forward sewing with a plan.
Yaaay! Rose, we’re on our way to creating a well rounded, functional wardrobe. So glad to have you join me. Thanks for being part of the conversation.
This couldn’t have come at a better time in my life! I too was sewing “specialty” pieces. Garments that aren’t practical for my everyday life. I have been thinking over the last couple weeks that I have to make more slacks, tops and a coat! I’m in the process of making the coat, but I should’ve had it done a month ago! Lol Anyway, thank you Anita for this and for making me feel not so alone and not so guilty for not getting on with practical sewing. Much love to you and your family and God Bless ?
Oh Patricia, I’m so glad we’re doing this together. Having others join me on this journey is really encouraging. See you here next week!
Looking forward to this series. I like you, have lots in my closet that I have sewn, yet nothing to wear. Yesterday I spend hours searching for a post to help me come up with a plan to at least plan and sew a work wardrobe. There was nothing!!
Natasha, this Series should be a great help to you in planning your work wardrobe. I’m so glad to have you join me. See you here next week.
I have the same issues. I have more patterns than I can possibly see and I keep buying more. I try to sew my stash but then I can’t pass up a fabric sale. I feel like I need an intervention lol.
Hahahaha! Tashon, YES! We need an intervention! Hahahahaaa!!!
I seriously get this, I sew for myself but never have anything to wear! I have recently analyzed the problem I have, to be that I sew to much with prints and therefore nothing goes with anything else to make an outfit. I love your idea to ‘sew with a plan!’ I’ll be following along for sure.
Oh Kris! I love a good print too! Thanks so much for joining the conversation and I’m so glad to have you with me omg this journey. See you here next week.
Yes I would like to join you on this series.
Awesome Kelly! I’m so glad to have you join me.
I have that issue too. I want to make items that are purposeful, that I will wear. I don’t want to be just making stuff to be making something. I am in the process of cleaning out my closet so that I can put things in that I will wear all the time.! Count me in! I am excited!
OooWee Sherry! Yes! I hear you! You have a head start and you’ll love next week’s topic. Thanks for joining the discussion.
I think this is a beautiful ideal, I’m in sewing with a purpose
Gale
Awesome! Thanks for joining me Gale.
Blessings to you and your family. I am so with you on this. I sew for myself. After 28 years with my old sewing machine I bought a new one and I must admit I made a few pieces on it. Anyway I joined a couple of sewing groups, and got so excited to show of what I made, but after a while the shine wore off I got fed up with having a fabric stash I don’t use much, adding patterns to a wish list half of which I will probably never make. At the moment I have made some life style changes which has been brilliant for me. After I read your post I realised I sew without a plan at times. My wardrobe needs certain items and I should be focusing on making more of those. Its ok to NOT get the latest pattern, to NOT get that piece of fabric you DON’T need. I am now finding my style aesthetic, what suits me . This blog post has come at the right time. This evening I will be going through my fabric stash and over the weekend go through my wardrobe and start #sewingwithaplan. Thank you so much Anita.
Fay, thank you so much for joining the conversation. I’m glad to hear you’re on your way to sewing with a plan too. I’m so excited to get started.
You must be reading my mind!! I am so, so on board with this and will gladly and enthusiastically join you in this journey. I spend the little sewing time I have sewing the current vogue trend that doesn’t serve me much beyond one season. I end up resorting to RTW for work and leisure. Now if you can help me with the fabric buying problem, my husband would be a very happy man! 🙂
Yaaay, Eliza! So happy to have you on board! We’re gonna get this thing right. Now about that fabric buying problem, girlfriend, we’re gonna have to help each other. Hahahaaa! I’ll see you here next week.
I’m with you sister! I have recently learned to buy only fabrics in my colors; black, navy, green etc. Just solids. I’m proud of myself for finally making a go-to outfit, a black corduroy tunic jumper top with black corduroy pants (on my blog). I’m finally taking smart pills! Ha ha! For fun prints, it needs to be something I will sew immediately; a cute wrap maxi skirt for the holidays etc. I’ve learned to identify my style too, I seem to do best with black knit tops with long maxi skirts, or tunic tops with pants. I too hate-hate- hate (like the Grinch says) shopping for clothes! lol I have resigned myself to giving myself somewhat of a break on sewing at this time, three simple fleece dog jackets and a Christmas apron. If I have time I may hem two simple flannel blankets for my two daughters still living at home., and if I don’t get to it they will be Valentine’s gifts.
I’m with you on giving to the Lord, so many things to have fun shopping for that reason! I also sometimes sew the Little Dresses for Africa as well but when it’s the right time. I’m also with you on just getting too much stuff, I’ve become so disgusted with myself. I’ve recently made it a matter of prayer.
I’m looking forward to this help! Thank you!!! <3
Blessings!
Amelia, you speak the sentiments of my heart. Thank you so much for joining the conversation and being a part of this journey with me. I can’t wait to get myself together. We’re gonna do better, sister. I’ll see you here next week.
Wow Anita, It’s as if you read my mind. Just a few days ago I was having those very same thoughts….I need to start making garments that fit my everyday lifestyle more so than the fancy special occasion garment that only gets woren every now and then or totally forgotten about and is just taking up space in my closet year after year ( which reminds me that it’s time for a wardrobe purge ) Can’t wait to see what you have planned to share with us on this matter Anita. Thanks in advance!
Hey Sharon! All of what you said! I get it all! Looking forward to having you join me. Thanks for being part of the conversation.
I’m totally with you, Anita. I’ve been subconsciously doing this for a while. I own my own business and I don’t need to dress up often. My work uniform is jeans, a knit top, and a jacket when the weather gets cold. Sewing the “latest” thing doesn’t appeal to me unless it’s something that will get lots of use.
Ann, it sounds like you’ve got your act together. I’m on my way to being in that place. Thanks so much for sharing and being part of the conversation.
WoW Anita, that was alot that you expressed. Well, I very much want to join with you. I am going through some life changes at this time. But I will jump on board once I move into my new place. I’m back in college and doing very good. I will continue to follow you and when I get my sewing machine I will definitely let you know ASAP.
Hey Angela! Congratulations on moving into your new place. Take your time because the Series will be here on my blog when you’re ready. Thanks for joining me.
? Bravo!!! Anita!! You hit some intriguing points!!
Thanks Rosalyn!
Clarity and Charity! I know sewists who give away their sewing sensations every season; i.e., Peggy Sagers of Silhouette Patterns has a Monday (biweekly) hour feature on her YouTube channel sews up a storm, but she gives items away yearly to her local Good Will and other places. She recommends having 25 pieces in your wardrobe and then add and subtract each season. Here is one of her videos explaining that: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=27&v=YC-bCu3POWQ I love your videos too and use all your tips. I never thought I would iron with a press cloth, but I wouldn’t be without one now! Love you, Julia
Hey Julia! Awesome! Thanks so much for sharing. I’ll check out here video. So glad to hear you use your press cloth. Love you too, Julia.
Sounds great Anita!! I’m in
Awesome Lawana! See you here next week.
You stunned me, I recently purchased the Babylock Soprano because of your YT’s. I must tell you, being direct that I am so happy for you and me. I love following you but I was only going to make Maxi dresses, Kaftans and other comfortable wear so I am super excited to join in on your new ideas! Welcome back
Hey Gisele! Congratulations on your new Babylock Soprano! Ooohhh, I love maxi dresses and kaftans. So glad to have you join me. See you here next week.
I am totally with you Anita…. I also started back sewing a year and a half ago and jumped on the Husqvarna Viking bandwagon three machines later, making any kind of project the sewing group offered and money spent on fabrics that have taken over half of my closet. I have also taken a step back from my sewing group and am focusing on how I can utilize the supplies I have and have decided to use my machines and embroidery software for Christmas presents this year. Bravo to you and God bless you. I’m so with you on this journey… Thanks for your inspiration.
Oh Jamie, just reading your story gives me memories of that fast track I was on. Goodness! I’m so glad that you’re joining me so we can make this shift together. Good for you on taking steps to make the change. Thanks for being part of the conversation. See you here next week.
At first I was shook by the post but after reading the blog it sounds so much like my life! As much fabric and patterns I have surrounding my bedroom, I have nothing decent to wear. I’m frustrated with the clothes in my closet and have gone on binges where I’ve cut out many things to sew but get distracted and by the time I get back to them it’s the wrong season smh. Sewing is therapy for me and trying to find a consistent balance…me time is a struggle.
OMGosh Sandi! I’m having flashbacks as I read your story about the changing of the seasons. Goodness! We’er gonna do better. If sewing is our therapy, we need to definitely have peace about it and have satisfying results. Who continues going to therapy when there’s no improvement. Meet me here next week. We’re about to shift this thing.
I’m so in Anita! I need to adapt to the changes in my lifestyle. I love to sew dresses but I need to make more everyday clothes that will get multiple wears. Most things I make that I love I have only worn once or twice!! I do a make 9 list eryvyear that includes basics yet never make most of what I put on the list! I dont have a ton of time to sew and tend to sew in spurts so I need to be strategic.
Last year I did a pattern fast from Jan -June with NO PROBLEM. Definitely going back to that and work with what I have! Thank you for this push to go into 2019 with a definite plan. I know i will be more productive with a target and plan going forward. I was balking at investing in an actual planner but i have one for the rest of my life, why not sewing?
Corynne, I’m so glad to have you join me. We will be much for productive and happy when we implement a plan to help us create more functional wardrobes. I’m ready. Thanks so much for being part of the conversation.
When I first saw the title it caught me off guard, but then I truly get your point. To me it’s somewhat the pressure of social media and the attraction to what’s posted and the constant feed of new information and options that it becomes overwhelming. Like you stated, you lose direction. I ditched trying to keep up. I have a very busy life and have precious little time to sew, so I really chose wisely what type of garment I sew. If it’s not going to get a lot of everyday wear, then I’m not interested. I make something special occasion pieces now and then, but I stick to more core pieces. I’m so inline with your strategy. I did my sewing plan over the summer with coordinating pieces and though I didn’t get to everything, it was well worth it. Keep sewing lady. Love your creations!
Yes, Dei! You are exactly where I want to be. Thank you so much for stopping by and joining the conversation. I really appreciate your wisdom and encouragement.
I started sewing with more intention this year (an actual sewing plan hasn’t worked for me). But I totally get it. I have started making those things that I really love. I’m excited to see you series and will definitely follow along!
Hey Denise! Sewing with intention is great. We have to do what works for us. The main thing for me is that I actually wear the things I’m making and that I have outfits that I can put together in any season. Thank you so much for stopping by and joining the conversation.
I want to join with you. I sew, but nothing seems to work together. I am hoping sewing with a plan will help with this.
Hi Cathie! Oh, yeah, sewing with a plan will help with this issue. It’s a huge part of the plan. Thanks for joining me. See you here next week.
I have been doing the same thing, can’t wait for the journey, to have a purpose! I’ve been following you for a few months, you inspire me, more so now!
So glad to have you join me Percyz! We’re gonna work through this together! I’m excited! See you here next week.
I’m with you all the way and understand.
Thanks for joining me, Victorial! See you here next week.
Wow! I’ve had this conversation just a week ago. I don’t have a white button front shirt, no black pants,one pair of skinny jeans… I had a funeral two weeks ago and had “nothing to wear”(no black dress).
I always tell people I can have anything I want (sew anything) and never have anything to wear. I can’t wait to see your plans… ??
Carolyn, you just made me scream! This is my story! This is my story! “I can have anything I want (sew anything) and never have anything to wear.” OMGosh! Look at us! Not anymore! SWAP is going down!
Give me strength! I work in a large well appointed fabric store in Northern Ontario Canada. Well you should see my pattern collection ….but I too have come to realize that if I can’t wear it to work or on vacation ( beautiful Florida when I am very blessed) that I will have to pass on the project. So last month I decided to sew only what I need from fabric I already have. First I did an inventory which I think greatly helped me see what I am buying. This is going great and I am feeling confident but both my decision and wearing my me made wardrobe at work.
Yes, Barbara, you’re ahead of the game! Love that you’re already sewing for your needs with what you already have. Now about working in the fabric store. OooWeee! Yeah, that’s way too much temptation for me. Stay strong, sister!
The title of this post was alarming but the post was right not time for me! I totally understand your sentiment here as I’ve experienced the same frustration! I have so many patterns and lots of fabric but I don’t have an actual, functional wardrobe. Just like you it really pains me to purchase ready to wear when I feel I have the ability to make most of the items I see in the stores. I’m happy to take this journey with you and I’m excited to get started!
Yaaay, Su! I’m so glad to have you join me! We can do this! I’m just thrilled to know that I’m not alone in this. Thank you so much for being part of the discussion.
As a newbie, I am falling into the same trap you were in. I have a million patterns, and a ton of fabric. There is no rhyme or reason to a lot of my purchases. Because of this, I have a very messy, unorganized sewing room. I am interested to hear about your plan!
Well it sounds like this post is very timely for you too, Nancy. Come back next week and join the journey with us. Thanks for joining the conversation.
Right on time Anita! i was watching you tube this morning thinking, I need to sew the Ogden cami because a couple of you tubers mentioned it. SMH… I don’t need a cami. its 45 degrees and raining in Virginia today. Some of us who are kinda on the sidelines watching the goings on in this community, yearn to be apart. So the thinking is, I should make what everyone else is making. I love the idea of the Make 9 and the Me Made May challenges. I was too late to participate in those so I’m curious about where you will take us on this journey. I’m taking a class on pattern making this Saturday. My goal is to get closer to being able to fit myself and have usable slopers to create a capsule wardrobe. Something along the lines of Sew over it’s Work to weekend. i need clothes to wear to work and casual weekend gear. #Sewwithaplan!!! I”m in!
Oooh, Bethany! That Ogden cami story! Girl, I’ve been there and I’m SMH too. I’ve never participated in any of the sewing challenges or sew-alongs that I can remember. The fitting and sloper situations are a yes for me too. I’m also ready for that capsule wardrobe. Thanks for joining the conversation. See you here next week.
I have been going through the same thing! I was inspired by another blogger which is why I launched a destash sale last week – getting rid of the fabric I know I will never use and the patterns I will never make. Definitely sewing with a plan now, let’s go! 🙂
Yes, Lisa! Let’s GO! Getting rid of the items you KNOW you’ll never use is a great idea. Thanks so much for joining me. See you next week.
Gracias por compartir tus sentimientos con nosotros, son de apoyo para aquellos q tambien hemos tenido perdidas de familiares. Estoy ansiosa porque seas nuestra instructora. Gracias soy principiante.?
Hi Vilma. I’m so sorry to hear that you’ve have loss in your family tool. I’m so excited to have you join me, especially because you’re a beginner. Thanks so much for stopping by and I’ll see you here next week.
This is going to be great!! I can’t wait to see what’s planned. I need more everyday clothes. Going forward sewing has to be with a purpose.
Yes, Sonya, me too. We’re gonna start creating those functional wardrobes that we need. Thanks for joining me and I’ll see you here next week.
I am so happy to be apart of “Sewing with a plan”. I been sewing for years and have nothing to wear. I also have a huge fabric and patterns stash. Anita, I applaud you for creating this blog at this perfect time!!! My goal for 2019 is to sew more for myself in a organize manner and to use up my fabric and pattern stash.
Your goals are my goals. Together, we will accomplish them and begin to rock our functional DIY wardrobes in 2019. Let’s do this! See you here next week.
I don’t know who’s body I’ve been sewing for but it certainly hasn’t been mine. I’ve been sewing the latest “hot” patterns instead of things that I know I like on myself. Then I get mad when somebody walks out the door with it (‘cause they look fabulous in it) or it just hangs there. So I’d like to start sewing what I’m going to wear or at least have someone else in mind if I’m not going to wear it. ? That way I don’t feel so deflated when the project is over.
OMGoodness, Theresa! I hope you don’t mind me laughing but your first sentence had me cracking up. I totally get it. The “hot” patterns are the ones I need to be careful about. When everyone starts sewing a particular pattern, that does NOT mean I should jump in too, just because it’s popular. From now on, if it doesn’t fit with my plans, it’s a no-go. Thanks for joining the conversation.
I understand your feelings I was actually feeling the same way. Now I am “Sewing With a Purpose” I have several years before I retire So I am trying to increase my work wardrobe as well as my casual wardrobe
Good for you, Maxine! Glad to hear that you’re already doing what I’m striving for. This is so encouraging and motivating. Thanks so much for joining the conversation. Stay focused and I wish you well as you prepare for retirement. Oh happy days are ahead!
Hi Anita, I’ve been sewing 4 years, and recently reached that point where I looked around at all the patterns and fabric and said, whoa Nelly. I’m “trying” to be more purposeful in my sewing. Lately just working through the fabric stash by just sewing, but I know it could be done better. I need to wear those pretty things I’ve made, if only to the store. lol ? I’m following you lady ?
Hey Cleopatra! “Whoa, Nelly!” Hahahahaaa! Yes, sew the pretty things that we want to wear a lot. Thanks so much for joining me. See you here next week.
I totally understand. When I started sewing a couple years ago, I was mostly sewing what everyone else sewed. Being that I was new, a lot of things didn’t come out right. Lol. I’ve been losing weight and have pretty much donated all of my clothes. I don’t have anything to wear either! So that’s what I decided to do. Only make things I will actually wear and that fit my personal style. I don’t do the fabric stash. I only buy when I need to for a project. Even when I do buy on the spur, I try to envision something I want to sew with it so I have a plan. Especially since my money has become tight. I don’t go crazy buying patterns either unless I’m either buying fabric and it’s for a current project or it’s a design I really love.
See, this is what I’m talking about, Adria! You’re got the right idea. You’re on the right path. Keep it going, sister! Stay focused! Thanks for stopping by and sharing your wisdom and encouragement.
Hi Anita!
I am new to your blog and I love it!
Such a great idea! I am from Poland and I think that it will be a problem to get all commercial patterns you will be using. But I plan to look for similar patterns in my country for example Burda patterns and join you with great pleasure.
I am really happy that you are back☺.
Wish you all the best!
Hi Agnieszka! I’m so glad to have you join me on this journey. Don’t worry about patterns. We’re not buying any new patterns. You’ll be able to follow along with al the steps without buying new patterns or fabric. See you here next week. So excited!
When i started sewing after I retired, never having had the experience before, I wanted to start from sensible basic skills and went to formal classes. Even there, I found myself sewing because I had to rather than because I needed whatever. I went through the phase of FOMO, buying patterns (though not as many as others I know!) and making things that just weren’t me. Someone asked me if I ever wore what I made – and I couldn’t honestly say yes. So I’ll follow along. However, I have really slowed down – I don’t need to speed through things. I took up sewing as a hobby. There is already a SWAP (Sewing with a plan) run by Artisan Square – even that I feel is pushing you into just sewing and sewing too much.
Ooooh, Anne! You’re singing to me, sister. You’re singing to me! The whole fast sewing thing–not my vibe at all. I think you will find that this is quite different. Thanks so much for joining he conversation. Come back next week and check out our first step.
I have sewn for 60 years. I wore blouses and skirts that I made to kindergarten, little simple a-line sorts, or ones just gathered at the waist. Peasent blouses for my tops. Now I only wear things I have sewn, with the exception of bras. Once I figured out how to size with my slopers, and then got a good legging pattern made, it is fun.
But I wanted to explain how I sew with a purpose. I look to my calendar. In my family, I have 10 grandchildren, the youngest 15. I can pretty much see ahead if a wedding or engagement where I need something fancy. Then I break the calendar in thirds. In my summer months I sew for winter, and winter for summer. In the spring months it is about spring cleaning, taking inventory of what I have, and what I need. This is when I sew undergarments, House dresses, and the necessities. My last quarter of the year are outer garments, this year I needed a new dress coat, and some sweaters. This is how I sew with a purpose. The other thing I do, it to sew from my stash. As to patterns, they are my quilt pleasure. I have worked hard to have a complete selection of Connie Crawford, and now DIBY patterns. I am a round woman, so I need the larger sizes. Fabric, I watch the sales, plus there have been fabrics I just wanted. Woolen challis, wool cashmere, and the main color has to be purple. 2 years ago I found denim printed with purple, pink flowers and green leaves. I bought 10 yards. Then I found Connie’s jeans pattern, and her jean jacket. 2 pair of jeans, one jacket, and enough to make a bag. All for 30 dollars, plus the patterns were bought off eBay for 5 dollars. That is how I sew with a purpose.
Hi Melody! Wow, you’ve been sewing for 60 years, since kindergarten. I’m pretty sure we can lear a whole lot from you. Thank you so much for sharing how you sew with a. purpose. The way you approach special occasion sewing is the same approach I use. I absolutely love the seasonal sewing by calendar thirds. Thanks for stopping by and joining the conversation.
You’ve been spying on me and now you’re telling my business?!! I have been doing the same thing and having the same thoughts (FOMO)! Pattern after pattern, trying to “catch” every sale or event and more fabric than I know what to do with (literally…only been sewing 6 months)??♀️. I’m ready for planned sewing. Can hardly wait…YOU ROCK Ms. Anita!
Hahaha! Cindy! Hahaha! We’re about to back it up! No more FOMO! So glad you’re joining me and thanks for being part of this conversation. Let’s do this! I’ll try to stay our of your business. Hahaha!!!
Yep, I’m in that process now. It really takes that “pressure” off of participating in ALL of the sewing challenges to make things I would not wear on a regular basis. Since my focus has shifted to fit and growing in that process I don’t/can’t make as many things as I was before and that’s a good thing. I no longer want to sew just to sew, but sew with a purpose. I’ve been donating clothes all year and will do another purge early 2019. I’ll be following along because you may come up with some ideas I haven’t yet incorporated.
Awesome Nateida! So glad to hear that you’re already doing this. That whole sewing challenge thing–GIRL! It can really take you off course and keep you in the cycle of FOMO! I’m really excited about stepping up my game and focusing on what’s most important.
Yes. Count me in.
This is so me. I basically sew all my clothes , I hate shoping for RTW. My sewing time is limited. Mostly I work from home. But just recently I had a meeting with a new customer, I knew, there would be like twelve poeple there, who never met me bevore. So what a would wear was an issue. And I had nothing, zero! The day before I had to go search for a decent shirt and pants. I was really frustrated. So a SWAP is the perfect thing for me right now. Thank you so much, I’m pretty excited.
Yes, Annie! That story about having nothing to wear to the meeting and going out to buy an outfit gave me chills, because I totally get it. Almost two years ago, I failed to sew clothes for a vacation that we planned well in advance. I was too busy sewing clothes that I don’t wear, so I had to go out and buy something to take on the trip. Never again! I need this SWAP! Thanks for joining the conversation and I’ll see you here next week.
Whew! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! I thought I had some kind of mad sewing disease-although I’m a beginner. LOL. Yes, I will definitely be joining you. God bless you. I’m so glad you’re BACK!!!
I apologize for replying to myself but I didn’t get a chance to respond to the re-launching of your blog. I’m loving it Anita. Congratulations!!! It is wonderful, and thank God so much for allowing me to be a part of this.
Thank you so much! Glad you like the new look of the blog.
Yess, Peggy! So glad to have you join me! We’re about to cure this disease with a SWAP! So excited! Thanks for joining the conversation.
Hi, Anita!
I can totally related to this. I love, love, love show stopping prints! An ENTIRE wardrobe of fabulous prints are made for spring and summer!
BUT in the winter time that leaves me with my buns freezing! Because there isn’t any way to really layer all those prints without looking like a bag lady. So I too have been giving this some serious thought.
And I think I have a great plan to sew in such a way going forward that I have a solid foundation upon which I can pepper in the prints I can’t live without. AND still stay warm and stylish this time of year.
Can’t wait to see if we’re on the same train! Take care!
Oooh, Janine! I love, love, love prints too! They must be a part of my wardrobe in any season. Thanks for stopping by and being part of the conversation.
I’m here for it. Trying to get back into sewing and need the Inspiration.
Awesome Neti! I’ll see you here next week. Thanks for joining me.
I really need this. I started seeing in 2014 got pregnant with twins in 2015. Threw all my clothes away and wanted to sew my own personal style. Like you I went fabric and pattern crazy. I picked items that were popular and I knew I wouldn’t wear. Currently, I refuse to get rid of any of my fabric or patterns because I’m moving and there are no good fabric stores in my area. I’m so looking forward to taking this journey with you.
Quitta!, we’re gonna position ourselves to create the wardrobes that we dream of. Nooo, don’t get rid of those patterns and fabric. Keep what you have for now and we’ll be talking about our future choices in the Series. Thanks for joining the conversation. See you here next week.
I am all in Anita! Sewing with a plan. I can definitely relate. I too have a closet full of me mades but nothing to wear LOL!
Yay, Patricia! Thanks for joining me and letting me know that I’m not alone. I’ll see you here next week.
Anita,
I appreciate this revelation and it is divine timing for me! I am a “beginner” sewer. What I mean is I can sew things, I’m a beginner garment sewer and this is the perfect start for me to both learn garment sewing all the while being strategic about what I sew! I’m excited to get started on this journey and the bonus for me is that I’m in the process of transforming my sewing space (studio) so I will be all set to begin from a fresh space!! BTW, I’m 17 days away from my 40th Birthday and I know 40 is very significant in so many ways spiritually. I feel like I am coming into a newness with my passion for sewing and using the gift the God has given me. It is going to be awesome creating my handmade wardrobe for years to come!
Thank you Anita! I appreciate your gift and living testimony to the world.
Oneika, you have given my heart of song this morning. This is exactly what gets me excited. Helping beginners is my passion. Yes, Happy “Early” 40th Birthday! I’m extremely happy to have you join me on this journey. You’re in the right place, sister.
I TOTALLY understand. I could easily have written this blog verbatim.
The solution is SWAP. I talk about this all the time.
Yes, Alethia! SWAP! Sewing with a Plan, or Sewing with a Purpose! The latter was my first title, then I changed it to the former. I’m so ready to shift my approach.
Count me in Anita. I have too sewn so many things and I have nothing to just throw on for a trip to the grocery store on a cold day. Nor do I have anything to wear to a Jr. high basketball game. I’m saying to myself WOW what have I really been sewing. I’m so looking forward to this Journey with you. See you next week sweetness.
Brandy, girl! Why am I over here with my lips perched thinking, “me too.” We need to stop! Thanks for joining the conversation and taking this journey with me. I’m so glad I’m not alone.
Everything you said is spot on. I think you and I came back to sewing around the same time, and I’ll be honest, I have always been in awe at your dedication to sewing! I wished I had the time to roll out half of what I’d like. My love was set in stone and I was not worthy of your SHINE during Member of the Month! I have loved everything you’ve seen because I share your tastes in apparel.
That being said, I have witnessed the phenomenon of fabric and pattern stash in the excitement of it all. I have my own small stash, but I have been stunned by the mammoth stash of people who have never sewn a stitch! ??. I think you’ve made a great point about sewing with intention, and not just sewing to sew. That’s great advice and it could honestly save so much time and money. I am SUPER GUARDED about my fabric and I hate to use it for frivolous efforts. I only want to use it intentionally for things that I will use and wear. So far, I’ve done that and made a couple event pieces that I’ve been able to rotate.
I love this new direction!
Hey Shonna Boo! Just reading your story made me smile. OMGosh! “Member of the Month!” I completely lost my mind and shocked my own self, but it was a blast. Ask me how many of those outfits are in my closet now. Not a single one! Shameful!
I love your calm approach and self control. Keep it there sew sister. I’m on my way to having some sense. Hahahaha!!! Love you girl!
I’m right there with you! I have shifted to sewing everyday wear because that is what I use the most. I get the most satisfaction out of wear what I make and I just don’t like rtw anymore. Even T-shirts are things I sew because then I would have to search online or stores for ones with sleeves that are long enough or fabric that won’t pull with the first couple of wears etc. I stopped buying as many patterns and fabrics because I found I fell out of love with them oftentimes. Excited to see your series!
Yes, Molly! You’ve got it sister! You’re on the path that I’m ready to join. Keep your focus! Thanks so much for joining the conversation.
Oh, this is what I need! Anita, you just don’t know how much!! Not only in my wardrobe, but other areas (life). I’m literally, starting over! ☺ This season will be, ” fiercely focused!” I’m so ready!
Ooohhh, YEEESSS! Me too, Caroll! This will translate into all areas of my life too. I’m in a new season now and have to adjust to my new normal. I’m right with you about getting focused. So glad you’re joining me! Let’s do this!
Aw I can hear this. I’d say this was more my issue in my RTW days. Lunch time, shop. Kids are gone? Go shopping. Saturday afternoon? Go to the mall.
I also sew a lot less than I used to (while honestly admitting that most of my “crazy sew all the things!!” days were due to marital problems) but I really do wear the vast majority of my clothes and purge what needs purging.
Now, my stash, that’s another ball of wax. Miraculously, I haven’t bought new fabric in 2 months and I haven’t bought patterns since August. I am really aiming to go to year end without purchasing new fabric and now, will add patterns to the mix since I’ve repeatedly missed the Simplicity sale, those patterns can’t be that critical to me.
I tend to make a list of wants/needs at the start of the season (“seasons” for me are spring/summer which is like, Apr-August and fall/winter which is Sept-Mar). I make this list big…all the things. And as I tick them off I reassess. For example, I realized I didn’t “need” black overalls. I have a denim RTW pair and wear them here and there spring-fall, so I took them off the list. I have a plan I’m sewing from currently and was going to add an oversized black/cream colorblocked sweater. But just yesterday I realized I have a sweater that will fit perfectly into my plans! It’s just more of a WINTER sweater and too warm for our current balmy 33 degrees 🙂
I think that scaling back and sewing with a plan can really get the focus back where you want it. 🙂
Hey KS! OMGosh! I remember reading about your sewing plans one year and I was so impressed. It was so organized and purposeful. Great tips you’ve shared here!
You’ve got me cracking up over your RTW shopping days. Hahahaaa!!! At least you’re wearing the things you buy and make. That’s my goal.
I love that you include “wants” along with your needs because I’m not about depriving myself. I think balance is okay in that area. Thanks for stopping by and joining the conversation, sister.
Oh Anita you are speaking to my heart. I need to sew with purpose. I even bought two sewing planners and havent cracked them open. I have definite wardrobe gaps and needs. I am excited to journey with you on this!
Yaaay, Carmen! I’m so happy to have you join me. Hold on to those planners. We will be discussing that in one of the steps. I’m so excited to have my sisters go on this journey with me.
Absolutely love this!! I came to this pint a few months ago and am now wearing what I’ve sewn and am sewing things I need rather than buy them… SO looking forward to your series!!
Yes, Heide, Yes! You’re a woman after my heart. This is my goal and I’m so excited to start this journey. Thanks so much for joining the conversation and I’ll see you here next week.
I think this is awesome. I have found myself sewing for others that I don’t get to make hardly anything for myself unless it’s for a special coupe church and I find myself with no clothes and I refuse to buy off the racks. I have others that wear my Designs more than myself and as for the patterns and fabrics……they have overtaken my sewing room and I find myself sewing in other places in my house because I feel overwhelmed and it really does have me rethinking this sewing thing.
Hey Sabrina! You and others who have sew-4-hire businesses have a very unique situation. Finding the time to sew for yourself has to be a real struggle. Perhaps this Series will help you to find more time as you discover how to sew with a plan to add items to your wardrobe.
Hi Anita! I am with you! This is exactly the reason why I created my sewing planner because I was tired of trying to keep up. I want to sew with intention and sew for my lifestyle. I am a working woman, who goes to church and needs more stylish casual wear to hang out on the weekends with my hubs or my sis/family/friends. I have been more selective on the patterns I buy and what I spend on fabric. I am slowing down and enjoying my makes these days! I think this will be a great series and I bet there are a lot of us thinking exactly the same as you!
Oh Dari, I’m so happy to have you join me. Yes, your planner will be great for this. I will be using the one I got from Shari and making it a part of the Series. But everyone will be able to use whatever planners they have. Yeeesss, slowing down is the key. Thanks so much for joining the conversation. I’ll see you here next week.
I totally agree with you Mrs. Anita and I thought I was the only one that felt this way. You can count me in!
God bless you.
Hey Lynette! It looks like we’re not alone. The sisters are speaking up and I’m so excited to have you join me on this journey. Thanks for joining the discussion. See you here next week.
Hi Anita, you scared me at first! But I get you. I’ve been sewing for at least 40 years now and since 3 years I found the sewing community on the internet. I loved watching everyone but was thinking the same thing as you now. When will they wear it? I’,m not really a sew with a plan girl but always sew with a reason for my kids and myself.
Anyway l might go along just for fun.
Hi Glenda! I hear you. I love seeing folks actually wearing the items they’ve made. I see some of them posting pictures of themselves wearing the outfits on different occasions, not just for a blog post. That’s what I’m talking about. I love that you sew with a reason. Thanks for joining the discussion.
I’m all in! I started out a little upset with “me” because I wasn’t sewing as much I saw others sewing. Then I wanted to jump on the pattern and fabric bandwagon. I finally decided that I’m not going to sew anything unless it benefits me and my purpose for sewing, and that’s to be able to sew my own clothing. This is an awesome post and I can’t wait to see where it leads! Be blessed!
Lillian, you have made my heart smile. See, this is what I’m talking about. Happy to have you join me. Thanks so much for joining the discussion.
Anita I totally get it! I have a room in my home where I sew. When you you look around your find dressy clothing hanging. But where am I to wear it. I have a trunk box filled with fabrics and the floor is lined vogue , mccall’s, etc patterns. I’m on board with you. I had to stop buying fabrics and from time to time I’m caught buying patterns on sale… then I’m like oh no you did it again! Stop Deneen!!
Deneen, girl, you know you made me laugh with “oh no you did it again!” Hahahahaa! The struggle is real! We’re about to shift the mindset. Glad to have you join me. Thanks for joining the conversation.
Hi Anita- I think this is a great idea! As a sewer for many many years I used to mainly make work clothing for my legal job, or do alterations for clients part-time. A few years ago all that changed when health issues disabled me & forced me into early retirement. I dont attend many events but I still need presentable outfits for dr apts, outings with my husband and son, etc. I also homeschool & even if I’m not going out for the day I still get “ready” every day- hair, makeup etc so I like to have casual wear that I wouldn’t be embarrassed for the UPS driver to see if I have to come to the front door- lol! I love following sewing bloggers but many times I think to myself that although I love their results i would never have a use for them! Thks for doing this & happy to have you back!
Teresa, you’ve just spoken to my situation. I want to look presentable too and I’m tired of wearing the same old thing over and over for lack of better choices. Thanks or joining the conversation.
Wow! I feel like this was written just to me and exactly what I needed to hear at this moment. My dad passed away this spring and my mother passed away a couple of years ago, this has me feeling orphaned and rudderless. I have always loved to sew since I was a little girl, I always carefully planned and chose my patterns and fabrics with joy and wore my creations with pride, but after discovering the online sewing culture, what may be for others inspiring just created paralyzation and dissatisfaction with a hobby that had once brought me so much happiness. The ideas of stockpiling patterns and fabrics were new to me and only seemed to to create a weight on my creativity and mind. I am so grateful to you for spurring this renewal of thoughtful, joyful sewing. As Christians we must carefully consider what is being spoken to our spiritual life, perhaps we must also be more careful what is being spoken into our sewing life.
Christina, first, please accept my condolences over the passing of your parents. My heart and prayers are with you as you heal.
OMGosh! Me too! I remember back in the day when I would plan each outfit, only buying what I needed for that project. It was so stress free then and utterly fun. I still enjoy sewing but my current approach has sucked some of the joy from it. That’s about to change. Thanks for joining me, sister! I’ll see you here next week.
Hello Anita, I’m feeling you with planning your sewing. I too have lots of clothing that I made but nothing to wear. I’m willing to give this a shot!
Awesome Gwendolyn! Glad to have you join me. See you here next week.
I like the idea of sewing with a plan. I think this would work better for me as I have found I am a frozen sewing state and what I mean is I have both a patern stash and a fabric stash, however I’m always afraid to start a project. I freeze. If I had a plan for a item maybe I can get started a finish a project. I would love to have more of my own self made clothes that have all these things and still have to go out and buy ready made clothes
Cathe, I think this Series will really help you. I believe as we work through he steps you’ll begin to thaw out from that frozen state and start creating the DIY wardrobe that you desire. Thanks for joining the conversation. Come back and join me next week.
I love this idea. Even though it doesn’t apply to me, because I’ve been building a home sewn wardrobe for over a decade, this is amazing to get a lot of others who want to do the same on the right track.
Thanks so much for replying, Erica. Yes, I KNOW this doesn’t apply to you. I love your sewing confidence and how you do NOT keep a fabric stash. I’m getting my stuff together girlfriend, and trying to bring a bunch of sisters with me along the way. Thanks for stopping by.
You scared me too!! So glad to see you are just having a change of plans! I have learned so much from you. God Bless.
Hey Karen! Hahaha! I seriously think there are many who need to make this shift with me. Thanks for stopping by.
I am all in sister Anita! You are definitely not alone! I’ve been feeling this way about my sewing for several months now, especially because I’m trying to move forward to a more minimalistic lifestyle. I want to sew clothes that I can have in rotation throughout the year rather than just that special occasion piece.
Can’t wait to engage in this journey with you!
Regards and love to you always. ❤
Hey Nola! So glad to have you join me. I love that you’re moving towards minimalism. I can’t say I’m going to the full extent of minimalism, but I’m certainly implementing some aspects of the minimalistic lifestyle overall as I move forward with adjusting to my new normal. I look forward to seeing your transition.
I am in!! You are right that this is nothing new, for what ever reason I just never did it. I thought about it a lot – but just did not actually engage. This series comes at a most opportune time for me. I will be retiring from my full time professional office setting type job July 1. So, that means I will need a somewhat different wardrobe for the next chapters of my life. With the exception of my most prized suits that I have invested many sewing/tailoring hours, I do plan to donate most of my professional clothing to the young professionals in the office that will be able to make good use of them (they too are counting the months until I retire :)) I also have a pattern and fabric stash that is borderline obscene. I see something on a sewing blog and/or a fabric sale, and I think I love that, will make it and wear it maybe one time. So, I do need a plan and I AM IN!!
Yes, Susan! Let’s do this, girlfriend! You excite me with your story. Retiring certainly brings about a lifestyle change that usually requires a wardrobe shift. I cracked up laughing when you said the young professionals are “counting the months until I retire.” What a treasured gift they will have with your custom clothing. I love that you’re donating to those who will put the clothes to good use. Thank you so much for engaging in the discussion with me. I’m so happy to have you go on this journey with me. See you here next week.
I used to be like that, but I also have no problem buying something RTW that far outweighs the cost of time and fabric of sewing. Your new series will be a great!
Thanks so much Eryn for stopping by! I’m so glad that you’ve overcome the drama and have peace shopping RTW. I don’t mind the time and fabric investment when I know I’m getting something that will fit “my body” and last longer than one season, without me having to spend a fortune. You rock your DIY and RTW very well. I need to get to a place where my wardrobe is “working” for me. This shift is much needed.
WHOA! You scared me! But it has a happy ending!! <3
Hahaha! Thanks Candice! Yep, about to work towards that happy ending.
Anita, you are such an inspiration! I strive to be as skilled as you in my sewing. That being said, this post makes absolute sense. I’ve made many garments but now that I think back, how often do I really wear them. With my busy schedule as a wife and mother of 4 children who all virtual school at home, it’s hard to even find time to sew at times. Why am I wasting time making clothes that don’t fit my wardrobe? I look forward to OUR journey to Sewing With a Plan! Girl, I’m with you!
Paris!!! You feel me, girl! We’re about to shift this thing. You most certainly have no time to waste. Your plate is full and your free time is precious. Let’s do this! Thanks so much for joining the conversation. Our journey begins next week. I’m so glad to have you with me.
I buy fabric and patterns I like but never seem to find the time to sew them up. I can also say I have clothes but nothing to wear. It’s all piece meal and I need to be more structured in what I’m buying. But I’m going to join the challenge so I can can thoughtfully add to my wardrobe by sewing up what I have. The fabrics original intention may have to go to the wayside! And by the way, I adore your blog and enjoy reading it. You have an amazing and joyful spirit:)
Hey Carrie! You’re off to a good start if you’re only buying patterns and fabric that you like. I believe this Series will help you with both your RTW and DIY wardrobe. Finding time to sew is a whole monster though. Thanks so much for joining the conversation and I’m happy to have you go on this journey with me. See you here next week.
I’m in ! I wanted to do this for a long time now. Just want to sew things I’m actually going to wear and planned out way to sew. Actually look at my closet see what I’m wearing and fill in some areas of pieces that I need also like blouses. Modify my plan to Sew in small increments I have 3 kiddos that I Homeschool.
Oooh Tangy! As a homeschool mom, you definitely need structure. You truly. have no time to waste. You’re thinking in the right direction and we’re actually going to cover the “CLOSET” in the Series. Thanks for joining me. I can’t wait to get started. I’ll see you here next week.
If I’m still I can hear God’s voice.. or read it in this case.
I have been frozen for sometime, Not sewing at all. Really, just overwhelmed with wanting to keep up with the speed of challenges and pattern releases. So I quit sewing.
I hope to be unpacked from my move to follow this series.
Ooooh, April! I understand! I truly get what you’re saying. There’s so much noise and trying to keep up with it all is very overwhelming. Congratulations on your move. The posts will be here when you’re ready, so no worries. You’ll be able to work at your own pace.
Hi Anita, I’m thinking back on our conversation about how I’m currently feeling about my wardrobe. I sew for every body else but I don’t sew much for myself as I would like to which at the end means I don’t have a lot of my creations in my closet. I may join you on this journey.
Yes, Latoria! You have a unique situation. When you have business sewing for others, I imagine the challenge to maintain your own DIY wardrobe is a huge challenge. At least you try to fit in time for yourself when you can. I think that’s so important. Thanks for joining the conversation and sharing your thoughts. I’ll see you here next week, sister. By the way: We’re gonna conquer those jeans. Hahaha!
Oh Anita, I really need this. I’ve been sewing for 40 plus years. Stopped for awhile when I was working. Since I retired in 2008…I started doing home Decor for Designers and other clients. Making drapes, pillows, women accessories. I still do these things. In 2016 I stopped buying readymade clothes excluding jeans and started making all my clothes. I got addicted to Instagram following all the seamstresses and designers and so I wanted to join the club and make beautiful things too. The problem I have now is when I make things I’m not happy. I’m like you have things but nothing to wear. One problem is finding fabric. I live in Birmingham, Al and we only have Joann’s and I’m not happy with the store of choice of fabric I like. I think a plan is the best way to go, the reason I ordered Sheri’s sewing planner. I’m so looking forward to this…because I have all these patterns and fabric stash ordering from Moods and other places, traveling to Atlanta shopping for fabric and can’t come up with what I want to make. Sorry for the long comment…I’m just excited. I’m on Instagram as “sewpaula”
Hey Paula!!!! OooWeee!!! You’re getting me even more excited now. Shari’s planner will be part of this Series. I’m so excited I can barely stand it. Just the mere thought of having others join me to sort this thing out and get on a path that leads to success, is worth all the work I’m putting into this Series. We can do this, Paula! Together we can learn how to build wardrobes that we’ll be proud to wear. Thanks so much for joining the conversation and I’ll see you here next week.
Hi Anita, what a GREAT idea. Your story is so similar to mine with the OMG I’ve been missing out on the fabric/patterns/sewing I’ve gotta catch up, I’ve gotta catch up. You hit the nail right on the head. I can’t wait to see what you have in store for us.
Hey Avis! Girl, the struggle. Thanks so much for joining the conversation and Series. I’m so excited for us to grow together. See you here next week.
Thank you so much, Anita… I’m so excited about having a plan to sew! I am definitely a planner and so I can’t wait to follow along with your plan!!!! You’re a true inspiration to me! Joanie
Hio Joanie! Yaaay! I’m so glad you’re joining the Series! I can’t wait to start planning and growing together. I appreciate you stopping by and being part of the discussion.
I’m a reader of this blog because at some point – now, that the kids are grown and I’ve finished my Master’s I have some time…. I actually want to learn to sew. I am however the queen of buying clothes it seems. But very few of the items I buy are “me” or really end up being flattering – yet $$$$$ later and over stuffed closets are still thriving in my home. So in a strange way, I can relate to what your saying. (although I am not sure I could actually function as a human with 1 pair of jeans!)
Oh, Marie, I died laughing when you said, “…I am not sure I could actually function as a human with 1 pair of jeans.” Hahahahaaaaaa!!! Girl, I’m a hot mess!
Oh gosh, thank you so much for sharing this here. I know there are others in the ready-to-wear world with the same issues. It’s all relative. Whether we sew our own or buy clothes, if we’re not wearing them, what in the world are we doing? It’s a vicious cycle and I’m trying to break out of it and take some folks with me along the way.
Keep following this series. I think some of what I share may apply to the ready-to-wear audience. Thanks for joining the conversation, Marie.
I’m so looking forward to this Series. The most difficult part for me is the finishing work and the fit. I spend so much time on a project only to throw it away because it looks ‘home made’.
Cindy, I know for a fact that you’re not alone. Poor fit is probably the #1 reason people give up on sewing. We’re gonna talk about it in the Series. Thanks for joining me and I’ll see you here next week.
I am with you. I am A collector of both fabric and patterns.
you are an absolute jewel!
Hi Pam! We’re gonna work this thing out. Thanks for stopping by and joining me.
Totally relate to your comments. Wait your solution
Hi Lynne! Thanks for joining me. See you next week! Stay tuned!
I agree with you, however I find myself not having anything to wear to an event because I usually sew more casual clothes that fit more into my lifestyle. So if something comes up I’ll have nothing to wear. I do find myself buying fabric just because and patterns that I still haven’t used. I think the series is great and will help sewist put things into perspective.
Oh Linda, I would so much rather be in your situation. Event sewing hasn’t been a problem for me because I can usually plan ahead if I know something is coming up. I’ve even sewn a dress up at the last minute for a date night with my husband the next day. The fabric and pattern situation is a whole monster. Yes, putting things into perspective. Thanks for stopping by and joining the discussion.
Anita, I will surely be following you on this journey. I have lost my sewjo and when I do sew, it is because I’m going somewhere and need something to wear. I refuse to buy a RTW wardrobe. I have recently bought a couple pairs of pants because I needed them asap. This will so help me with my 2019 sewing plans. Even though I have been sewing for 40+ years, I still run out to get the patterns everyone is making. I have a fabric stash that I have been over 30+ years. I am not buying any more fabric until I deplete some of my stash. I haven’t bought fabric in about six months, so I’m good on that. Now I need to work on not buying patterns. I already have boxes and shelves full of fabric and patterns. I’m excited for this new series and it should help me with using my sewing planner from Shari.
Oh Sharon! Reading your response had me holding my breath! Girl, 30+ years of fabric scares me. I’m over here feeling overwhelmed with my 3+ years of stash and feeling how ridiculous it is for me to buy fabric, so I KNOW how you must feel. Over the years, I’ve told myself I would sew my stash down before buying anymore fabric. I’ve Sid that over and over, but what dd I do—buy more fabric, because, A SALE. We’ve got to change this or we’ll remain exactly where we are now. Yeeesss! Shari’s planner will be discussed in this Series. Thanks for joining me and giving your feedback.
Hi Anita. I understand. I have “some” of these challenges: too much fabric, but for me, not enough sewing. However, as I am in a learning mode now, my goal is to be strategic and intentional in my sewing-sewing what I need and what best fits what I am comfortable with. Of course, all of this is contingent on my sewing skills and my level.
Thanks so much for sharing and for your honestly. :-). God bless!
Hey Joan! Sounds like you’re in the right frame of mind. Good for you! Stay focused! Thanks so much for stopping by and joining the discussion.
Anita, thank you for this post. I enjoy sewing but getting it to fit is difficult! I was born with scoliosis and RTW doesn’t fit well either. People like you help keep encouraged to KEEP TRYING, BECAUSE I WILL GET THERE!
Yes, Dara, you will get there! I’m so glad you mentioned this because one of the things we’re gonna cover in the Series is what we should be focused on, based on our individual needs. Stay tuned and thanks for joining the conversation.
I love this idea so much Anita. I will definitely be following this. I took a crack at blogging earlier this year and even thou I did enjoy it, I also found myself hurrying to sew something to feature on the next weeks blog post and never wearing it after that, which made no sense. With a very unfortunate situation that has happened in my life just recently, I view things so much differently than before. I will continue to sew and only post a blog as I make what I REALLY want and not just because I need a post. So you have no idea how your series is so right on time for my life right now. Thank you so much.
Ooohhh, Angie, you feel me! You get exactly what I’m trying to convey here. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve made something to post on the blog and never worn it again. You’re absolutely right—It makes no sense. You’ve spoken the condition of my heart when you said, ‘…I view things so much differently than before.” This is exactly where I am too, Angie. My perspective has shifted and I want to spend most of my time doing things that matter. I have a very low tolerance for nonsense right now. Life is too short. Thank you so much for joining the discussion and following the Series.
What an awesome plan for sure!!! I am with you in trying to make my sewing this past year more purposeful and ensuring I will love to repeatedly wear what I’m making. I’ve spent some time concentrating on fit as well. I’m excited to join in because I can admit the planning part for me can create its own anxiety! I get caught up in over-thinking things and not doing much. I can’t wait for what you will be sharing!
Hey Stephanie! I’m so glad to have you join me. Trust me, I can totally understand where you’re coming from in getting so caught un in planning that you never get started. The steps I’ve laid out will help us move past being STUCK. See you next week. Stay Tuned!
Anita I’m wearing most of what I have sewn so for me it is time to slow down selfish sewing and sew for others for a change. I too have fallen for fabrics and patterns that don’t fit me or my lifestyle and I am working on reducing the stash. I’m also working on filling the holes in the wardrobe so Sewing With a Plan works for me.
Theresa in Tucson
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